Excepts from "The 52 Immutable Rules Of Success"... Author Sylvanus Mgbechukwu
RULE 2: PLAN YOUR LIFE
“An intelligent plan is the first step to success. The man who plans knows where he is going, knows what progress he is making and has a pretty good idea when he will arrive. Planning is the open road to your destination. If you do not know where you are going how can you expect to get there?”
- Basil Walsh
If you can step aside from the crowd, allowing the frenzied world to keep at her noisy activity -
while you stop and plan your own life, you will definitely fare better.
To succeed you have to sit down and plan your life.
It is very important to spend some time - ample time indeed - planning to succeed in something as precious and singular as your life.
Nothing succeeds without a good and careful plan.
A careful and well-planned life is 50% sure of success.
He who fails to plan has only planned to fail.
Somehow everybody plans, knowingly or unknowingly.
While some people plan to succeed - by succeeding to plan,
others plan to fail - by failing to plan.
Mind you, no man ever planned to fail, just that most men fail to plan.
Once you have decided on the purpose of your life (many start failing from here) that is, what you are to do in life, the next step, which is very important, is to draw the road map for arriving at that goal. You have to put down, in black and white, steps, programmes and strategies, which will bring you to arrive at such a goal.
And when you have finally perfected your plan, be disciplined enough to follow such plan without deviating unnecessarily.
This helps you to maintain the track and helps to measure the pace and performance at any given point in time.
Greville Kleiser would say,
“Get into the habit of living according to plan. Allow yourself a sufficient margin of time to do things. Leave nothing to chance. Hurry, worry and anxiety defeat your purpose. Eliminate from your life, as far as possible, all undue nervous strain, tension and excitement, and you will accumulate great reserves of mental and physical vitality.”
Many people fail in life not because they couldn’t have succeeded, but simply because they did not sit down to plan their life - nor did they bother to draw even a sketchy programme for their life.
They opened their eyes at birth and in a few years they noticed that the trend is to go to school (or at least learn a trade), get a job, start making money;
and then find a lover, sooner or later, marry, and start making babies!
Next they send them to school.
In no time, no stone is left unturned in an effort to secure a job, either in the civil service, in a blue-chip corporation, in the political arena, or in a religious garb - to start making money.
And so much money must be made - to the extent that it looks like there's some unwritten rule that the end would eventually justify whatever means to it!
And so, many folks would spend their entire lives making money.
Unfortunately too, the more the money, the more he or she is respected, celebrated - and counted as "successful" or "a successful life".
And so unfortunately furthermore, two of the propelling thoughts in this frenetic obsession to make money is "so that my children would not have to suffer";
while the other is, "so they would give them a good burial - as their parents!"
So if they could make as much money as possible, the means not important, they count themselves as "successful."
All these are in the prevalent perception that this is just what life is all about!
With this perception, they were contented to hop into the bandwagon of normalcy and ride on with the crowd.
And before they could realize that the crowd has no direction and was heading nowhere in particular, it had become too late in life, and time cannot be reversed nor can they accomplish anything from that point in time.
Thus very many of us just plan to make money - and actually goes out every day just to make money!
Few, very few, actually realize that planning to make money - and being regarded as "successful" is a world apart from planning to lead a successful life.
Planning and making money would fetch you the accolade: "successful", but your very life could be a wreck - to be ended by a pill, heart-attack, a karmic payback, a revenge bullet, or even a "friendly fire" from your inner circle!
But planning for, and leading a successful life is something sublime and needs good knowledge and knowledge of life itself.
It needs pure wisdom, understanding, discipline, moderation in all things, piety, love of truth no matter how unpleasant, and a humble deference to others.
Without these provisions, none would be said to have really planned for a successful life!
A well-perfected plan is a guarantee against failure. By failing to plan, the person has already started failing and have insured his failure - because there were neither a well-packaged plan with trouble-shooting
options nor PLAN B - or other lines of action or alternative routes to the destination.
Success is no fan of chance. A gambler never succeeds. Success is like a mansion or an architectural masterpiece. You sit down to plan it and be careful enough to build it according to plan.
Victor Hugo made an important observation. He said,
“He who every morning plans the transactions of the day and follows out that plans carries a thread that will guide him through the labyrinth of the most busy life . The orderly arrangement of his time is like a ray of light which darts itself through all his occupation. But where no plan is laid, where the disposal of time is surrendered merely to the chance of incidents, chaos will soon reign.”
Good planning and conscientious execution has tremendous impact and several advantages for us. Among several other uses, planning
• Lets us do one thing at a time;
• Makes whatever goal or ambition easy to accomplish;
• Helps us to maintain or keep on the track or road-map;
• Helps us to secure our future;
• Helps to measure the pace and performance at any given point in time;
• Gives us the luxury of having every step as a measured or calculated step;
• Stops unnecessary dissipation of energy;
• Keeps worry at bay;
• Drives away fear, tension or anxiety.
I would rest my case with the words of William A. Ward where he listed four steps to achievement, namely:
• Plan purposefully
• Prepare prayerfully
• Proceed positively
• Pursue persistently
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